One thing I found interesting in this chapter was the
section titled “Make Daily Choices That Enhance Intimacy”. The reason I chose
this section is because I personally tend to forget to pay attention to the
decisions I make in my relationship on a daily basis. For instance, sometimes
I’ll spend the whole day with my boyfriend upset about something that happened,
either having to do with us or with something completely unrelated, and I
forget that my decision to remain upset is affecting him and the quality of the
time we’re spending with each other. Small things like that can have a really
big impact on him, which I don’t always remember to take into consideration.
So now every day I try to
focus on doing all kinds of little things that’ll make him happy or that will
show him how much I really do care about him. I’ll randomly hold his hand,
sneak up behind him and hug him, let him know that I miss him when he’s not
there, and other things like that. I’ve noticed a HUGE difference in the time
we spend with each other when I do things like that. The whole atmosphere with
us is obviously much happier and we enjoy each other’s company so much more. :)
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